Session Two: Seizing Opportunities

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List people you know who have seized opportunities. Were they encouraged or discouraged be the people around them? What was the outcome?
Kelly and Gay - Las Vegas - some encouragement, some discouragement. It didn't work out, but it lead them to where they are now in a good place!
Jeff and Juli - youth group part time - encouragement. Had a good run!
Amber - career move - encouraged (I think) - good I hope!
Chris and Ashley - Showhomes - not sure but encouraged I guess - doing well so far

What opportunities have you seized in your own life? Are there any opportunities you wish you had seized?
Seized: Getting my Masters, job at NCA, moving from NCA (I'm trying to seize that now), DN for Kelly and Gay this year, Ron Clark Academy Conference this year, trying to connect with old friends and encourage them.
Wish I had Seized: Try out Ridgecrest sooner, completing this Bible study, focusing on improving my teaching, classes in college - could have studied harder, encourage my co-workers

Etymology of Opportunity

Col 4:5 "Make the most of every opportunity"
In Chinese the two characters that make up the word crisis mean danger and opportunity

Problems are opportunities in disguise

Had you ever considered that a dimension of spiritual maturity is the ability to see and seize opportunities? On a scale of 1 to 10, how good are you at seeing opportunities? How good are you at seizing opportunities? Seeing: 4; Seizing:2 (and that's being generous)

Can you think of other biblical examples of people seeing and seizing opportunities?
Esther, David and Goliath, Daniel and the Lions den, Moses, Noah, Peter

Describe a time in your life when you turned a potential problem into an opportunity. After college I was the Resident Director in the dorm that I had lived in all four years, after that I decided that I need to do something else but I did not feel lead to look for a job in ministry as my degree would suggest. I didn't know what to do, so instead I decided that I would go back to get my masters in Elementary education! Then when I was finished God put me in a place where I could teach the little ones and still minister to teenagers!

What problems are you currently facing that might be opportunities in disguise? Well I literally LOL (laughed out loud) when I read this question. My problem is that I do not have a school to teach at next year. The opportunity came in the form of a call this morning from a principal who would like to interview me! I recently had two other interviews on this journey. The first one was at a school that I really didn't want to go to. The grade was too low, the drive was way too long, but the people were very nice. Then second school seemed like the best opportunity ever for me. There were three openings, I hit it off with the principal right off the bat, I knew someone that worked there already, it was only a 45 min drive, all the people seemed really nice and it sounded so good. Well that one fell through and I was devastated. Now today I have been focusing on trying to have a prayerful life where I can see and seize opportunities…and opportunity did not knock, it roared! This school district is right by where I live, they are a nice, well respected school. I am sure they have technology and a wonderful operation. I even laughed when I prayed this morning for God to show me the path. I laughed and said "You must have been laughing when I thought the other opportunity was so wonderful!" The old…we plan…God laughs! Although I prayed about that job, I think God just wanted me to have peace that people are interested in my resume and in me, but I needed to wait. I want to seize this opportunity!


For Such a Time as This

"…God is in the business of making sure we meet the right people at the right time. He's also in the business of strategically positioning us in the right place at the right time. But here's the catch: the right place often seems like the wrong place, and the right time often seems like the wrong time. "

Esther 4:13-16
13 he (Mordecai) sent back this answer: "Do not think that because you are in the king's house you alone of all the Jews will escape. 14 For if you remain silent at this time, relief and deliverance for the Jews will arise from another place, but you and your father's family will perish. And who knows but that you have come to royal position for such a time as this?"
15 Then Esther sent this reply to Mordecai: 16 "Go, gather together all the Jews who are in Susa, and fast for me. Do not eat or drink for three days, night or day. I and my maids will fast as you do. When this is done, I will go to the king, even though it is against the law. And if I perish, I perish."

Go back and read the entire story of Esther for the finer points. What opportunity was presented to Esther? She had the opportunity to save all the Jewish people including herself and her family. She could try to get the King to listen to her even though she had not been called for.

What was the opposition, the risk, and the potential reward? She risked her life! She could have easily been killed and the King would have never known why she came. He could have killed her after she told him why she came just because he did not call her. The potential reward was life and life for all Jewish people.

List the other people who played a role in this story. Did they encourage or discourage Esther from seizing her opportunity? Mordecai - "Head cheerleader!" Hathach - helper, Haman - discourager

Is there someone in your life who needs to be encouraged to seize an opportunity? Yeah ME!!! Hilary - move to a new state? Tina - Oklahoma; Jo nursing school; Rachel - MME

List there name and one practical thing you can do this week to encourage them. Hilary - call and ask her about her move and opportunities instead of just texting; Tina - pray ask how the interview went after Monday; Jo - talk to her about it; Rachel - send a card/letter of encouragement.

Prayer Mode

Col 4:5 "Make the most of every opportunity"
How?
Col 4:2: "Devote yourselves to prayer, being watchful and thankful."

Survival mode Vs Prayer Mode
Survival = reactive; Prayer = proactive

Aramaic prayer = slotha = to set a trap
Prayer helps us catch the opportunities that cross our paths. People who live in prayer mode see opportunities that other people don't even notice. People who don't live in prayer mode are opportunity blind.

In what areas of your life do you tend to live in survival mode? To be honest most areas of my life

In what areas of your life do you tend to live in prayer mode? Unfortunately I have not been living in prayer mode. I intend to do so now! I have been living in prayer mode this week. Looking for a job is where I have spent most of my prayer time this week.

After reading the definition for the Aramaic word for prayer, do you view prayer any differently? If so, how? It confuses me a little. So, if I am praying I am setting a trap for opportunities. I see how if I am praying that when an opportunity comes by I will be more likely to see it. In the recent past I probably had some opportunities that I did not seize that I am getting the chance to seize at this time. I may not recognize them as opportunities if I had not been in prayer mode.

What are some practical then you can do to move toward prayer mode living? Keeping a prayer journal. That way I can see what I am praying for and see what has happened as a result of the prayers. If I read back to see what I have been praying about and see the current situation I am, I may be able to detect the opportunities and be able to seize them.

What are some prayer traps you need to set? What is God's will in my job situation. What is God's will be my future family? What path does God want me to take next?


The Reticular Activation System

Psalm 5:3 "In the morning, O LORD, you hear my voice; in the morning I lay my requests before you and wait in expectation."

This is how David started his days.

Do you pray better in the morning, the middle of the day, or at night? Do you think that praying in the morning is important? To be honest, I am NOT a morning person. I sleep in until the very last second I can. Is does not matter if I have had 3 hours of sleep or 10 hours of sleep…I don't want to get up! Therefore in the morning I tend to rush and don't spend time in prayer or Bible study. I will occasionally say a prayer in the car as I am rushing to work. My prayer life has been lacking. I need to make an effort to pray in the mornings. So I would have to say evenings. Yes, days that I start in prayer may not go "easy" but I think they do go better. If you take the time to focus on God in the morning you will be able to see what He has for you as the day unfolds. I need to take that time to pray in the morning. Even if it is only in the car rushing to work, I can make an effort to do that.

How is your current prayer life affecting your expectations? Ouch…my expectations have been low because I have not been praying enough. I need to be living in prayer mode so that my expectations will be higher!

The Greatest Opportunity

Have you ever seized the opportunity that Christ has offered to us? If so, list three ways in which Christ has made a difference in your life. If not, please leave a message on this blog and I will be happy to contact you about what the Greatest Opportunity is.
Yes, believing that Christ died for me has made me know that no matter what I have done…I matter, that there is a REASON for me to be where I am when I am there, and that when times get tough I am not alone and that God will look after me and take care of me.

There are times that I feel like I am alone and that God doesn't want to help me. I reality it is not that He doesn't want to help me, it's that I am running away from Him, trying to avoid His help and not asking for His help. All I have to do is ask. No where else is this true, I can't just ask for money from a bank, I have to already have money in the bank or a way to pay it back, I can just go to the store and ask for items I need or want, I have to pay for them. When I want God's help, all I have to do is ask, and I will receive it. Salvation is the same, you do not have to work for it, you can't work for it in fact. You don’t just get it because you was born. But if you ask God for salvation and truly believe in Him, you can receive it, He just gives it to you…He already paid for it.

Mental Preparation: "Be very careful, then, how you live - not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil." Eph 5:15-16

Spiritual Preparation: Over the next week begin each day by praying the following:
"At daybreak, Lord, You hear my voice; at daybreak, I plead my case to You and watch expectantly. Ps 5:3
After praying that verse, spend one minute in silence, meditating on God and His provision in your life.
Make a list of things you are thankful for.
Make a list of things you are prayerfully expecting God to do.
Over the course of the week, does you list change any? If so, how?

I am still working on trying to figure out what opportunities to seize. Some opportunities seem like they are a good thing, and then they turn out not being a good thing at all. I am getting frustrated when I go on job interviews and end up not getting the job. I have been praying that God show me exactly where I am supposed to be, and I have been trying to take advantage of opportunities that come up. I just don't know which opportunities are good ones and which ones are not so good! I want to live in prayer mode not survival mode…that may help me figure out where I am supposed to be!